It seems as if creating successful relationships with our loved ones and the upbringing of children, are two of the most difficult tasks that we are facing and, however did not receive any formal training in any of them. It is as if people believe that we are born with an inherent ability to do these two things. However, we should look around. In the United States.UU., the divorce rate is slightly over 50%. Couples go through life getting along when times are good, and fighting, ignoring or leaving to another, when things get tough. Most people believe that seeking help with their relationships through the admission of a certain kind of defeat, says something about who they are as a person.

Or, possibly, believe that relationships are something that assumes that you can only manage on our own. Or, finally, some people believe that are out there helping couples and you can not know more than them. So the question is everything that has to learn about relationships is for everyone the same? Well, the truth is that much to learn in regard to relationships there is. Unfortunately, most of us, the only training we can receive is passive learning, i.e. through the model of adults who live in our home with us and by means of communication. Now, I don’t know you, but my parents had only received informal training they received from their parents, and my great-grandparents and so on backwards through the generations.

There is much more to know about the relationships than that! In addition, my parents have helped sustain the statistic of 50%, cited above, which holds that they were divorced sometime around his 25th wedding anniversary. What I have learned about relationships to see them my life, is that couples never discussed, particularly in front of children. On the surface, my parents had a very happy marriage, but my father suffered one crisis stereotyped to half life and soon asked about the meaning of the life and decided that his marriage was holding him somehow.